Lesson 2 of 16

Meet, Greet and Introduce Yourself

Master the verbs essere, fare and stare, and handle your first real conversations: greetings, introductions, names, nationalities and jobs.

⏱ About 50 minutes 22 phrases 25 exercises

What you will learn

  • Conjugate essere, fare and stare in the present tense
  • Greet people and ask how they are in both informal and formal Italian
  • Introduce yourself and others with Mi chiamo and Piacere
  • Talk about your nationality and profession
  • Use e, ma and o to join ideas
  • Choose between tu and Lei by context

Quick review

Say these aloud before you start. They come from earlier lessons.

  • Parlo italiano. I speak Italian.
  • Non lavoro qui. I do not work here.
  • Dove abiti? Where do you live?
  • Ho una domanda. I have a question.
  • Abbiamo mangiato bene. We ate well.

Theory

The three pillars of every conversation

Essere (to be), fare (to do/make) and stare (to stay/be doing) appear in almost every first meeting. essere and fare are irregular, so learn them as sets — but note that stare is regular: sto, stai, sta, stiamo, state, stanno.

stare appears in greetings: Come stai? literally means 'How are you staying?' — but Italians ask it as 'How are you?'. At beginner level: use stare for how someone is doing or feeling, and essere for who or what someone is.

  • Io sono inglese. I am English.
  • Che lavoro fai? What do you do for a living?
  • Sto bene, grazie. I am well, thanks.

Informal tu and formal Lei

Italian has two ways to say 'you'. Use tu with friends, family and young people. Use Lei (with a capital L) with strangers, older people and in professional situations.

The verb form changes too: Come stai? (informal) becomes Come sta? (formal). When in doubt in Italy, start formal — Italians will invite you to switch to tu.

  • Come ti chiami? What is your name? (informal)
  • Come si chiama? What is your name? (formal)
  • Lei parla inglese? Do you speak English? (formal)

Introducing yourself without hesitation

Mi chiamo... is the standard way to give your name — it literally means 'I call myself...'. Piacere means 'pleasure' and is the all-purpose reply when you meet someone: Piacere! — 'Nice to meet you!'.

To say where you are from, use Di dove sei? (informal) or Di dov'è? (formal), and answer with Sono di + city or Sono + nationality.

  • Mi chiamo Laura. My name is Laura.
  • Di dove sei? Where are you from? (informal)
  • Sono di Londra, ma sono inglese. I am from London, and I am English.

Joining ideas: e, ma, o

Three tiny conjunctions connect your sentences: e (and), ma (but), o (or). Put them between two complete sentences or two items: Sono di Roma, ma abito a Milano.

Learn the greeting pairs as units: buongiorno/buonasera for meeting, arrivederci/a presto for leaving, and remember grazie and prego always travel together.

  • Buongiorno, come sta? Good morning, how are you? (formal)
  • Grazie mille! Prego. Thanks a lot! You are welcome.
  • Arrivederci e a presto! Goodbye and see you soon!
essere, fare, stare — present tense
essere fare stare
io sono faccio sto
tu sei fai stai
lui / lei è fa sta
noi siamo facciamo stiamo
voi siete fate state
loro sono fanno stanno

essere and stare both give sono in the io form — a common trap. Sono inglese (I am English) but Sto bene (I am well).

Greeting pairs
Meeting Leaving
any time Ciao! Ciao! / A presto!
morning Buongiorno! Buona giornata!
afternoon/evening Buonasera! Buonasera! / Arrivederci!
night Buonanotte! Buonanotte!

Ciao works for both hello and goodbye, but only with people you use tu with.

Vocabulary

Learn these words with their pronunciation. Nouns are given with their article — always learn them together.

Italian English Pronunciation Audio
essere to be /ˈessere/ EHS-seh-reh
fare to do, to make /ˈfare/ FAH-reh
stare to stay, to be (how one is) /ˈstare/ STAH-reh
chiamarsi to be called /kjaˈmarsi/ kyah-MAHR-see
ciao hi, bye /ˈtʃao/ CHAH-oh
buongiorno good morning, good day /bwonˈdʒorno/ bwohn-JOR-noh
buonasera good evening /bwonaˈsera/ bwoh-nah-SEH-rah
arrivederci goodbye (formal) /arriveˈdertʃi/ ah-ree-veh-DEHR-chee
grazie thank you /ˈɡrattsje/ GRAHT-syeh
prego you are welcome, please /ˈpreɡo/ PREH-goh
scusa sorry, excuse me (informal) /ˈskuza/ SKOO-zah
male badly, bad /ˈmale/ MAH-leh
così così so-so /koˈzi koˈzi/ koh-ZEE koh-ZEE
il piacere pleasure; nice to meet you /pjaˈtʃere/ pyah-CHEH-reh
il nome name /ˈnome/ NOH-meh
italiano Italian (person/language) /itaˈljano/ ee-tah-LYAH-noh
inglese English (person/language) /iŋˈɡleze/ een-GLEH-zeh
lo studente student /stuˈdente/ stoo-DEHN-teh
il professore teacher (male) /profesˈsore/ proh-fehs-SOH-reh
il medico doctor /ˈmɛdiko/ MEH-dee-koh
l'insegnante teacher /inseɲˈɲante/ een-sehn-YAHN-teh
l'ingegnere engineer /indʒeɲˈɲere/ een-jehn-YEH-reh
l'avvocato lawyer /avvoˈkato/ ahv-voh-KAH-toh
il lavoro job, work /laˈvoro/ lah-VOH-roh
oggi today /ˈɔddʒi/ OH-jee
il marito husband /maˈrito/ mah-REE-toh
la moglie wife /ˈmɔʎʎe/ MOH-lyeh

Ready-to-use phrases

Ciao!

Hi! / Bye!

IPA /ˈtʃao/

Say it CHAH-oh

Works for hello and goodbye, with people you use tu with.

informal greetings

Buongiorno!

Good morning! / Good day!

IPA /bwonˈdʒorno/

Say it bwohn-JOR-noh

neutral greetings

Buonasera!

Good evening!

IPA /bwonaˈsera/

Say it bwoh-nah-SEH-rah

Used from late afternoon.

neutral greetings

Come stai?

How are you? (informal)

IPA /ˈkome ˈstai/

Say it KOH-meh STY

informal greetings questions

Come sta?

How are you? (formal)

IPA /ˈkome ˈsta/

Say it KOH-meh STAH

Use Lei forms with people you do not know.

formal greetings questions

Sto bene, grazie. E tu?

I am well, thanks. And you?

IPA /sto ˈbɛne ˈɡrattsje e ˈtu/

Say it stoh BEH-neh GRAHT-syeh eh TOO

informal greetings

Mi chiamo Marco.

My name is Marco.

IPA /mi ˈkjamo ˈmarko/

Say it mee KYAH-moh MAR-koh

neutral introductions

Piacere!

Nice to meet you!

IPA /pjaˈtʃere/

Say it pyah-CHEH-reh

The standard reply when names are exchanged.

neutral introductions

Come ti chiami?

What is your name? (informal)

IPA /ˈkome ti ˈkjami/

Say it KOH-meh tee KYAH-mee

informal introductions questions

Come si chiama?

What is your name? (formal)

IPA /ˈkome si ˈkjama/

Say it KOH-meh see KYAH-mah

formal introductions questions

Di dove sei?

Where are you from? (informal)

IPA /di ˈdove ˈsɛi/

Say it dee DOH-veh SAY

informal questions places

Sono inglese, di Londra.

I am English, from London.

IPA /ˈsono iŋˈɡleze di ˈlondra/

Say it SOH-noh een-GLEH-zeh dee LOHN-drah

neutral introductions nationalities

Che lavoro fai?

What do you do for a living? (informal)

IPA /ke laˈvoro ˈfai/

Say it keh lah-VOH-roh FY

informal questions work

Faccio il medico.

I am a doctor.

IPA /ˈfattʃo il ˈmɛdiko/

Say it FAH-choh eel MEH-dee-koh

Fare + il + profession: Faccio il medico. Sono studente (no article).

neutral work professions

Sono studente.

I am a student.

IPA /ˈsono stuˈdente/

Say it SOH-noh stoo-DEHN-teh

neutral professions study

Questo è mio marito.

This is my husband.

IPA /ˈkwesto ɛ mi o maˈrito/

Say it KWEH-stoh eh MEE-oh mah-REE-toh

neutral introductions family

Questa è mia moglie.

This is my wife.

IPA /ˈkwesta ɛ ˈmia ˈmɔʎʎe/

Say it KWEH-stah eh MEE-ah MOH-lyeh

neutral introductions family

Grazie mille!

Thanks a lot!

IPA /ˈɡrattsje ˈmille/

Say it GRAHT-syeh MEEL-leh

neutral courtesy

Prego.

You are welcome.

IPA /ˈpreɡo/

Say it PREH-goh

Prego also means 'please go ahead' and 'can I help you?'.

neutral courtesy

Arrivederci e a presto!

Goodbye and see you soon!

IPA /arriveˈdertʃi e a ˈprɛsto/

Say it ah-ree-veh-DEHR-chee eh ah PREHS-toh

neutral greetings

Buona giornata!

Have a nice day!

IPA /ˈbwɔna dʒorˈnata/

Say it BWOH-nah jor-NAH-tah

Said when parting in the morning/afternoon.

neutral greetings

Mi dispiace.

I am sorry.

IPA /mi disˈpjatʃe/

Say it mee dees-PYAH-cheh

Also 'I am sorry to hear that'.

neutral courtesy

Dialogues

At a house party in Rome

Giulia introduces herself to Emma at a friend's birthday party.

  1. Giulia

    Ciao! Mi chiamo Giulia. E tu?

    Hi! My name is Giulia. And you?

  2. Emma

    Ciao! Io sono Emma. Piacere!

    Hi! I am Emma. Nice to meet you!

  3. Giulia

    Piacere! Di dove sei?

    Nice to meet you! Where are you from?

  4. Emma

    Sono inglese, di Londra. E tu?

    I am English, from London. And you?

  5. Giulia

    Sono di Roma, ma adesso abito a Milano.

    I am from Rome, but now I live in Milan.

  6. Emma

    Che lavoro fai?

    What do you do for a living?

  7. Giulia

    Faccio l'avvocato. E tu?

    I am a lawyer. And you?

  8. Emma

    Sono studentessa di italiano!

    I am an Italian-language student!

Formal meeting at the office

A new colleague meets the director for the first time — everything stays formal.

  1. Direttore

    Buongiorno, come sta?

    Good morning, how are you?

  2. Luca

    Buongiorno, sto bene, grazie. E lei?

    Good morning, I am well, thank you. And you?

  3. Direttore

    Bene, grazie. Come si chiama?

    Well, thanks. What is your name?

  4. Luca

    Mi chiamo Luca Bianchi.

    My name is Luca Bianchi.

  5. Direttore

    Piacere. Che lavoro fa?

    Nice to meet you. What do you do?

  6. Luca

    Faccio l'ingegnere da cinque anni.

    I have worked as an engineer for five years.

  7. Direttore

    Perfetto. Arrivederci e buona giornata!

    Perfect. Goodbye and have a nice day!

Exercises

Answer actively — try to recall the Italian before you look at any hint.

multiple choice Exercise 1

Choose the correct form of essere.

Io ___ inglese.
multiple choice Exercise 2

Choose the correct form of fare.

Tu ___ il medico?
multiple choice Exercise 3

Choose the correct form of stare.

Noi ___ bene, grazie.
conjugation Exercise 4

Write the correct form.

essere — lei (present tense)
conjugation Exercise 5

Write the correct form.

fare — loro (present tense)
conjugation Exercise 6

Write the full form.

chiamarsi — io (present tense)
conjugation Exercise 7

Write the full form.

chiamarsi — lei (present tense)
fill gap Exercise 8

Fill the gap with the correct question word.

___ stai? (How are you?)
fill gap Exercise 9

Fill the gap with the missing adverb.

Sto ___, grazie. (I am well.)
translate to italian Exercise 10

Translate into Italian.

My name is Marco.
translate to italian Exercise 11

Translate into Italian.

Where are you from? (informal)
translate to italian Exercise 12

Translate into Italian.

I am English, from London.
translate to italian Exercise 13

Translate into Italian.

What do you do for a living? (informal)
translate to italian Exercise 14

Translate into Italian.

I am a doctor.
translate to english Exercise 15

Translate into English.

Piacere!
translate to english Exercise 16

Translate into English.

Come si chiama?
multiple choice Exercise 17

Choose the correct form for the formal you.

Lei ___ inglese?
word order Exercise 18

Tap the words in the correct order.

Build the sentence: I am from Rome but I live in Milan.
match pairs Exercise 19

Tap a greeting, then its situation.

Match each greeting to its use.
true false Exercise 20

True or false?

Sono inglese means 'I am well'.
true false Exercise 21

True or false?

Come sta? is more formal than Come stai?.
listen and type Exercise 22

Play the audio, then type exactly what you hear.

Listen and write the Italian sentence.
article choice Exercise 23

Choose the correct article for professions after fare.

Faccio ___ medico.
flashcard self rating Exercise 24

Say the greeting aloud, then reveal the meaning and rate yourself.

Buongiorno! Come sta?
flashcard self rating Exercise 25

Say it aloud with your own name, then reveal and rate yourself.

Mi chiamo... Piacere!

Speak now

Do a one-minute self-introduction aloud: greet, give your name, nationality, city and job. Then switch to formal and do it again as if meeting a stranger.

  • Buongiorno! Mi chiamo... Good morning! My name is...
  • Sono inglese, di Londra. I am English, from London.
  • Faccio l'ingegnere. I am an engineer.
  • Piacere! Come sta? Nice to meet you! How are you? (formal)
  • Grazie e arrivederci! Thank you and goodbye!

Lesson checkpoint

Before you move on, make sure you can do all of this without looking:

  1. Greet someone formally and informally, and say goodbye
  2. Give your name, nationality, city and job without notes
  3. Ask someone their name and how they are, in both tu and Lei
  4. Say all six forms of essere, fare and stare from memory
  5. Join two ideas with e, ma or o

Remember this

  • essere: sono, sei, è, siamo, siete, sono — for who or what someone is.
  • stare: sto, stai, sta, stiamo, state, stanno — for how someone is: Sto bene.
  • fare: faccio, fai, fa, facciamo, fate, fanno — and fare + il + job: Faccio il medico.
  • Mi chiamo + name, Piacere on meeting, and Di dove sei? / Di dov'è? for origins.
  • tu is informal, Lei is formal; the verb forms change accordingly.

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